I couldn’t help but wonder if some woman hurt him so much in his past that he created this fairly tale to cope. I asked him if he had ever been married.
“Once,’ he said, but I was 19 and I got a woman pregnant, so I had to get married. The marriage only lasted a few years.”
WHAT A SURPRISE! I can’t imagine any woman putting up with his attitude for very long. I was having trouble with a brief interview! I truly couldn’t believe what I was hearing!
He talked about how historically, men have always been superior. They were forced to protect women after impregnating them and the species would not have continued unless men had strayed and spread their seeds to multiple women. Yes, I’ve heard that theory before, but to date, I don’t think men have discovered a way to reproduce without the egg and womb … the seeds are virtually useless on their own.
Then there is a little thing called evolution. Historically, both sexes were hard wired as barbarians at one time, but our brains have evolved and we have learned that a civilized society works better with laws, mutual respect and monogamy, despite deviations to the contrary. Further more, modern homo sapiens possess the ability to control their urges, develop strength of character, integrity and honesty. I’m sorry, but male or female, it’s just not okay to deceive someone to get what you want … not in business, politics or relationships.
Well, there was one thing he said that made sense. Women DO need to become aware that there are a lot of men out there who manipulate and tell women what they want to hear in order to get sex. My advice … Use common sense, don’t get swept away by romance, listen to your instincts and don’t ignore red flags, because if he isn’t for real, the red flags WILL be there!
I still have a little more to say on this subject so I plan to post part 3 tomorrow … to be continued …
Casi
Personally i think he got left behind in the barbarian time! There is no mention of a meaningful relationship or even friendship with women?? So i guess his mission in life (as he thinks is the case for all men) is to go out and spread his “seeds”?!
I see a dirty old (and lonely) man in the making 🙁
Thank the Lord…he is the exception and not the rule, yet we must remember to always keep our radar out for the red flags!
Exactly! My point in printing this is to let women know that these men exist and some of them are very convincing and romantic. I believe there are women who deceive men as well to get what ever they may have on their own agenda. I don’t think a lot of men believe what this man believes, but like Jeffrey Marsalis, the match.com rapist, many men and women don’t think they are doing anything wrong when they ‘play’ the opposite sex. I just want to raise awareness and caution, especially to those who use internet dating.
Casi
I don’t see how you could stand talking to that guy. It’s all about sex and how he can manipulate a woman into cooperating. In the old days he would have had to go to a prostitute and pay for services. Now he expects them for free!