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Got Attitude?

[youtube][/youtube]As I wrote my book, I was continually amazed at coincidences that influenced its content. The serendipity of coming across a dusty piece of paper, yellowed by age, that had years before slipped from its worn tape and fallen to rest under my refrigerator, seems more than chance.

After washing my hands, my ring slipped from my fingers and rolled under the corner of my fridge. Annoyed at the incident, I pulled the appliance out and bent down on my hands and knees to search for my treasured possession. As I scanned the area, I noticed a piece of paper covered in dust and wedged between the pipes and metal. I carefully pulled it from its hiding place and glanced at the sheet as I tossed it towards the trash can. The simple word “Attitude”

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Do you need PASSION in your life?

Find your passion..Have you ever wondered what makes you … you? Think about it. What is it about you that sets you apart and makes you unique? I’m not talking about your profession or accomplishments … not your house, car or bank account. I don’t mean the roles you play like a daughter/son, sister/brother, mother/father or friend? None of that defines who you are?

You know what I mean, the excitement that lives somewhere between your childhood dreams and your hopes for the future, your passion. There is Read more “Do you need PASSION in your life?”

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Can You Make a Difference?


To a Child – Love is spelled T-I-M-E: What a great story! You never know just how much you touch the lives of those around you. I have heard people say over and over again that one man … or woman … can’t really make a difference. I’ve probably even said it on occasion myself, but I believe … YOU can make a difference and touch the lives of others, and in the process, you will enrich your own life.

In today’s society and busy world, it is unusual Read more “Can You Make a Difference?”

Wingless Butterfly

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Chapter 1

Her warning still echoed in my mind. He’s the kind of man that pulls wings off of butterflies. The faceless man had haunted me for as long as I could remember. I shuddered and clenched my eyes as tightly as I could, but the admonition refused to be silenced.  Read more “Wingless Butterfly”

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Why Are Women Attracted To Jerks?

Here's to finding the love of your lifeI went out on YouTube the other day and searched for “dating jerks.” I was truly amazed at how many videos were out there. The most common question was “Why are women attracted to jerks?” In light of my research, I thought I would answer the question with my own spin on things. My expertise is derived totally from my own experiences and observations, but the answer is crystal clear.

I want to address the male jerks who are primarily “Players.” Why do we fall for them? Simple … They are Read more “Why Are Women Attracted To Jerks?”

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Do You Make These Mistakes With Your Love Life?

Change Your Pattern

People may laugh, but there really is such a thing as a Jerk-magnet! It all comes down to patterns. You’ll never understand why you keep making the same mistakes as long as you keep making the same mistakes. Sounds a little redundant, right? It’s a simple concept though. Think about a mouse in a maze. If you put a mouse in a maze and he experiences pain when he runs in certain directions, he quickly learns to avoid those paths. So why can’t we just learn to stop dating Jerks?  I may not be a genius, but I’m certainly smarter than a rodent!

No one is Read more “Do You Make These Mistakes With Your Love Life?”

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Copyrighting Your Work

[youtube][/youtube]My roller coaster ride yesterday consisted of talking with web designers, production specialists, printers, copyright officials, and pulling together social media and technology details for upcoming engagements. The book business for me has been initiation by fire––with two feet firmly planted in free-fall. It’s been Read more “Copyrighting Your Work”

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Are You a Jerk-Magnet?


I got this picture from Daily HaHa and I totally identify with her. For years I couldn’t understand what was wrong with me. I continually found myself at the bottom, struggling to look up. When I looked at myself, I saw an educated, thoughtful, honest, warm, loving, giving woman … God, I sounded like a girl scout. Perfect, I was a middle-aged girl scout! No … I just had to face the facts; I was a “jerk-magnet ” ! So how do you change that? You have to Read more “Are You a Jerk-Magnet?”

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Lethal Lovers * Part 2

Don't get in over your head!Toxic relationships can take you down, so don’t get in over your head! I have received a lot of emails from people telling me about their own experiences. It’s funny how the picture seems so clear from the outside looking in, but there is a kind of smoke screen when your in the middle of it. I am not here to judge, because I have screwed up more times than I want to admit, but the purpose of my blog is to create a sort of support system for jerk-magnets so read on and remember, we’ve all been there before. Hindsight is always 20/20.

Sara told me that about 6 months into her relationship, her boyfriend began to ask her to park her car in his garage. His excuse was Read more “Lethal Lovers * Part 2”

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Yes, It Was Awful—Now Please Shut Up * Part…

Walking in the Weeds

This has been such a great series and I couldn’t wait another day to let you read the rest of it. When I first realized my self-image was trashed, it was hard to find my way out of the weeds. I couldn’t find my footing and everywhere I turned, I couldn’t see the path in front of me. My decisions had always lead me in the wrong direction before and it was hard to change that habit. I just had to trust myself and move forward.

In this last section of Martha’s post, she talks about taking baby steps. Take it from me, it’s not easy, but the outcome is so worth the effort! I was like a modern day Rip Van Winkle. I slept through a lot of my life … I went through the motions and wasted so much time! I just want to shout out, “WAKE UP PEOPLE!” You can follow your dreams!  The great thing about dreams is they don’t expire!  They can lay dormant for years and when you pull them out and dust them off, they shine like new!!!  I really Read more “Yes, It Was Awful—Now Please Shut Up * Part 4”


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